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Cynical Optimist – Thought Catalog

My words can now be found on Thought Catalog! I am a cynical optimist – the ultimate oxymoron. To find out exactly what I’m talking about, please check out my article Cynical About Love, But I’m Forever an Optimist on Thought Catalog. As always, your thoughts, comments and opinions are greatly encouraged and appreciated. Lots of love & light to you all!  

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Dodging a Bullet

  Have you ever had your heart broken?   I’m sure you have at least once or twice; it’s the worst feeling in the world isn’t it? I’ve had more than my share of heartbreak over the years. It’s such an all-consuming feeling and nothing can stop the pain; especially when it’s the heartbreak of a broken relationship with someone you loved. The heartbreak of an ended relationship is hard to cope with for anyone. That heartache and pain make you work your way through the stages of grief as…

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Strip Club Mean Girls

Have you ever watched the teen movie, Mean Girls?   For those of you who haven’t, basically, it’s about a clique of popular high school girls called The Plastics; the 80’s had Heathers, the 90’s Clueless, and the 00’s, Mean Girls. Since it’s a piece of fiction, of course, there is a happy ending to the movie; in real life, however, you’re not always guaranteed that happy ending. The strip club I worked at was similar to the movie Mean Girls; there was a clique, and the Queen Bee and her…

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