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Identifying The Strip Club Queen Bee

  Learn how to recognize the Strip Club Queen Bee in four easy steps.     • Step 1: Look for a bee larger than others in the hive. In the strip club world, this refers to the size of ego. The Queen Bee had one of the biggest egos – one that she always swore she didn’t have – that I have ever met. The Strip Club Queen Bee represents the epitome of narcissism; everyone from the owner to the employees and customers is deep under her spell. She…

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Strip Club Mean Girls

Have you ever watched the teen movie, Mean Girls?   For those of you who haven’t, basically, it’s about a clique of popular high school girls called The Plastics; the 80’s had Heathers, the 90’s Clueless, and the 00’s, Mean Girls. Since it’s a piece of fiction, of course, there is a happy ending to the movie; in real life, however, you’re not always guaranteed that happy ending. The strip club I worked at was similar to the movie Mean Girls; there was a clique, and the Queen Bee and her…

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All That Glitters…

  Forget all you’ve ever seen on TV, music videos and in the movies about strip clubs, especially behind the scenes.   It is not glamorous and 99% of the girls are not tall, beautiful models; in fact, in my seven years I can only recall a handful of girls that even came close to that description. I remember having conversations with other club employees (not dancers) who shared the opinion that you could find “hotter girls” walking the local malls than who worked the clubs. When I started working the…

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