musings on the fly relationships 

Please (Don’t) Buy Me Flowers

  From the moment I entered into the double digits, I’ve been a hopeless romantic. This happened without reading sappy romance books in my teen years, as most of my female peers did. Most of the time I manage to hide my hopelessness under the guise of my hard-earned cynicism.   At times I view my hopeless romanticism as a character flaw; I feel it weakens my badass-don’t-mess-with-me cynical bitchiness.   I sometimes hate to admit that one of my guilty pleasures is to watch chick-flicks and romantic comedies; they are…

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music musings on the fly punk 

Love Kills – Sid & Nancy

Sid & Nancy (1986), directed by Alex Cox, was a tortured love story about Sid Vicious of Sex Pistols and his girlfriend/partner in crime, Nancy Spungen.

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musings on the fly rants 

Sick

  I used to take great pride in and loved to brag about my “strip club immune system of steel” – that came to a screeching halt when I got sick last week. I’m guessing it’s because I don’t have that constant exposure anymore to all the crazy germs and viruses out there. Let’s face it, there are no sick days or paid leave for strippers, or anyone for that matter working in the adult entertainment industry. Girls would show up to work sick, coughing and sneezing all over the place.…

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