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Spring Flinging It – 22 Sexy & Sultry Songs for Lovers

  Hey there loves, I’m back with another Mix Tape Playlist for you! Since we’ve had such a long and crappy winter (that’s putting it mildly!) I thought I’d put together a kick-ass mix tape playlist of songs to get you in the mood for some spring fling action. *wink wink* This music mix has a good variety of old and new, goth, industrial, techno, rock, and even some modern pop tunes. From Lana Del Rey and Flight Facilities to Duran Duran and Depeche Mode, this mix definitely runs the gamut…

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Life Lessons – 10 Things I Wish I Had Known in My 20’s [Pucker Mob]

I’m not going to lie – I was a total hot mess when I was in my 20’s. Growing up the way I did, it’s a wonder I made it this far in life! My first piece on Pucker Mob’s MoBlog is speaking directly to my younger, hot mess self. If there was really such thing as a time machine (or TARDIS!) and I could go back in time, these are the top 10 things I would pass on to my younger self. Most likely, I still wouldn’t listen… but…

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Strip Club Memories – Color Me Harold

Working at the strip club wasn’t always bad, in fact, there were a lot of good times I shared not only with the girls, but customers as well. Over this past weekend, while writing another Strip Club Follies installment, I remembered an instance where all the dancers I worked with showed kindness and compassion to a very special customer.   His name was Harold.   The first time I met Harold, he came bumbling into the club with a big smile on his face, and a backpack slung over his shoulder. He…

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My Alter-Ego – Lucretia [NSFW]

It’s funny the things you run across when going through old journals and files.     Back in the 1990’s, before BDSM went mainstream through venues such as Hot Topic and with atrocities of so-called literature like Fifty Shades, I was known to some as the Mistress Lucretia. I was a twisted, somewhat sadistic, yet very affectionate, caring and sensual Dominant.   Although these days I resonate more as a switch than a Dominant – which simply means I enjoy both sides of the coin, Dominant and submissive – Lucretia still resides in the…

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“Sexy Disco” Haiku [poetry]

When I traveled to Italy in 2011, I learned the phrase “sexy disco” from Matteo, my sexy Italian tour guide on my ride to the Amalfi Coast. I found that “sexy disco” is the term for strip clubs when I told him where I worked at the time. From what I understand, they are nothing like the gritty clubs of the US. Matteo wanted to take me to see a “sexy disco” when we returned to Rome. Unfortunately, I did not take him up on that offer.  The following haiku (I took some Jack Kerouac…

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