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Why I’m Destined to be Alone – NSFW

The relationship gods do not like me – I am convinced of this fact.   After four years of not being in a (conventional) romantic relationship, I’ve grown used to my solitary life – and I love it. I come and go as I please, sleep diagonally in my queen sized bed, and never have to worry about the toilet seat being left up. I can leave feminine products out on the bathroom counter, hang clothes and delicates to dry in the shower and don’t have to worry about anyone…

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classic alternative gothic industrial life mix tape music new wave rock 

Forbidden Fruit: A Lustful Mix

Love and sex makes the world go ’round – it’s a fact of life – and they offer for a lot, if not most, song lyrics.  Love. Lust. Passion. Where would we be without them?  What about kink and corruption? Now we’re talking… What is it about the forbidden fruits that make them so much more sweeter to taste? I think it is human nature to have some deviant desires. Of course I consider myself the unofficial queen of unconventional relationships, at least in my circle of friends. It’s no secret I’ve…

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mix tape music strip club 

Songs strippers ruined for me

As you can tell from the title of the post, this is a mix tape playlist of songs ruined forever to me, thanks to working at the strip clubs. When I hear these songs, I am instantly transported back to the drama and chaos of my time served at the strip club.  I reveled in the days I had good playlists of music for the day shift. Monday and Tuesday were usually Classic Rock, Wednesday was 80’s-90’s day, Thursday was classic R&B & Motown day and Friday was a free…

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life strip club 

Et Tu Brute? – Backstabbing Bee

    One of the most confusing and annoying things I’ve had to wrap my brain around since leaving the gritty and corrupt world of the strip club is how Queen Bee went from being my BFF to my enemy. I’ll never forget when Queen Bee and I first met. The club had just opened the doors to a day shift; I was only a house mom, working night shift. Queen Bee fluttered into the dressing room as I was setting up my stuff for the night girls. We exchanged…

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mix tape music musings 

Spring Flinging It – 22 Sexy & Sultry Songs for Lovers

  Hey there loves, I’m back with another Mix Tape Playlist for you! Since we’ve had such a long and crappy winter (that’s putting it mildly!) I thought I’d put together a kick-ass mix tape playlist of songs to get you in the mood for some spring fling action. *wink wink* This music mix has a good variety of old and new, goth, industrial, techno, rock, and even some modern pop tunes. From Lana Del Rey and Flight Facilities to Duran Duran and Depeche Mode, this mix definitely runs the gamut…

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