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Dodging a Bullet

  Have you ever had your heart broken?   I’m sure you have at least once or twice; it’s the worst feeling in the world isn’t it? I’ve had more than my share of heartbreak over the years. It’s such an all-consuming feeling and nothing can stop the pain; especially when it’s the heartbreak of a broken relationship with someone you loved. The heartbreak of an ended relationship is hard to cope with for anyone. That heartache and pain make you work your way through the stages of grief as…

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All That Glitters…

  Forget all you’ve ever seen on TV, music videos and in the movies about strip clubs, especially behind the scenes.   It is not glamorous and 99% of the girls are not tall, beautiful models; in fact, in my seven years I can only recall a handful of girls that even came close to that description. I remember having conversations with other club employees (not dancers) who shared the opinion that you could find “hotter girls” walking the local malls than who worked the clubs. When I started working the…

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The Naked Truth

  When your life has always been chaos, you tend to attract the same kind of energies, circumstances and people into your life.   It was the summer of 2005 that I entered into a world that some find fascinating and exhilarating – strip clubs. I started working as a house-mom at a popular club in Downtown Cleveland, and was soon drawn in fully to the drama and chaos they hosted. I fell right into the allure of the club and quickly fell in love with the large amounts of…

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